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Indian Dinner Party

I have two avenues that I want to venture down with this party. The first is using this party as a project for school. I was blessed to get to make food for my granddaughter’s World Studies classroom! Her teacher was about to embark on the British domination of India and I was invited to come and do an activity with the kids. We made Mulligatawny Stew.

While we chopped the veggies we talked about what all that they had learned in this chapter of their book and some of their favorite things that they now know about India. Then I taught them a brief history of this quirky little dish. The kids finished chopping vegetables and then the bell rang for them to shuttle off to their next class. I gathered up all the veggies and assembled everything in a big stew pot in the lounge/kitchen, and had it cooked and ready for them by their lunch period.

Here is just a brief history of the soup from the *www* titled, “The Not So Innocents Abroad,” as well as a recipe which was featured in the article:

THE ORIGINS OF MULLIGATAWNY SOUP

Indian meals are traditionally served all at once, the containers placed in the center of the table, family-style, with everyone digging in and helping themselves to the shared dishes.

During the British Raj, between 1858 and 1947, when the sun never set on the British Empire, the fussy British colonists and soldiers refused to alter their way of dining, which I’m sure they felt was much more civilized. And that included a soup course.

Well, there wasn’t really an Indian soup, per se, so the servants would water down one of their occupiers’ favorite dishes, milagu tannir, which translates to “pepper water” in Tamil, a southern Indian dialect. (One source says the dish was molegoo tunes, a broth drunk by poor Sri Lankans.) The British never seemed to worry about pronouncing things incorrectly, and they garbled the dish until it came out mulligatawny, as it’s known today.

The colonists brought mulligatawny back to Britain, where it’s a staple on pub menus, though the recipe varies widely. We’re partial to the version my mom makes. Apples, curry, carrots, garam masala, chicken, green chilies and onions all come together in a surprisingly cohesive and delicious meal

 INGREDIENTS

  • 2-3 stalks celery, thinly sliced
  • 2 chicken breasts, cooked, cooled and shredded
  • 5 garlic cloves, minced
  • 3 tablespoons garam masala
  • 2 teaspoons curry powder
  • 8 cups chicken broth
  • 2 bay leaves
  • 1 teaspoon ground ginger
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • 2½ cups onion, chopped
  • 3 large Granny Smith apples, diced
  • 1 small can diced green chilies
  • 2 cups carrots, chopped
  • 3 tablespoons lemon juice
  • 1 14-ounce can diced tomatoes
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  • 1 cup heavy cream

PREPARATION

Put oil and butter in a skillet until it melts.

Sauté onion for 4-5 minutes.

Add garlic, sautéing for 2 minutes.

Add the rest of the ingredients to a large pot, except the heavy cream. Cover and simmer.

Ladle out some of the warm liquid and slowly add the heavy cream while stirring. This will help prevent the cream from curdling. Add it back to the pot and cover.

Simmer for at least an hour. The longer the better.

Serve with fresh parsley (and a dollop of sour cream if you’d like).

Back in the day, the heavy cream was coconut milk, so feel free to substitute that.

The original recipe also called for a potato (peeled and chopped), but the Shirl swaps this out for another apple. You can’t tell the difference, she says, and she likes the added sweetness. –Wally

This is what our stew looked like. We served it with warmed naan (flat bread).

The recipe we prepared had rice in it (there are literally dozens to choose from on the Internet):

MAKE IT A DINNER PARTY!

When my kids were little, I loved introducing them to world cuisine and culture by having theme suppers. These often were extended to our larger family, Mom and Dad, my sisters, and my kids’ friends, and often were a way to celebrate birthdays.

I spent weeks collecting recipes, researching clothing and decorations, and always tried to come up with some fun activities to make the night extra memorable. Secondhand stores and yard sales were my go-to’s for finding clothing, serving items, decorations, tablecloths, etc.

As luck would have it, my husband and I were on a flight from Los Angeles to Denver when a beautiful Indian family boarded last minute and took up the remaining seats scattered throughout the plane. The woman sat next to me. I wasn’t sure if she spoke English, but eventually I took a chance and said hello. She had a very heavy accent that was a bit hard for me to understand at first, not being terribly familiar with it, especially with the loud droning of the airplane competing with her rather quiet voice, but she was very friendly and we managed to have a terrific conversation. I confessed that I thought this was curiously fortuitous that our paths should cross, because I was planning an Indian dinner party and was just in the stage of deciding on recipes. She gave me several suggestions and also some ideas about culture and entertainment. The flight went by so quickly, it seemed like the blink of an eye and we were landing. Before the plane arrived at the gate we had become fast friends. We exchanged phone numbers and email addresses, and I deplaned armed with all the information I would ever need to throw my party. In fact, as soon as she and her family returned to Los Angeles, she went shopping at her neighborhood grocery store and purchased several Shan box mixes which she sent to me, explaining that this way I wouldn’t have to spend a fortune on spices and impossible to find ingredients to make my dishes. My favorite was the Chapli Kabab – a spicy ground beef mixture that is shaped and then grilled on the BBQ!!! She also sent a box full of decorations, clothing items, and bracelets.

Isn’t it a wonderment how THE TABLE unites us? No matter what our color or creed or religion or customs or politics even, food has an amazing way of bringing us all together. She and I remained friends for many years until our several moves caused us to lose track of each other. I’m thinking of her fondly as I jot down these lines of prose. What a beautiful person that God placed in my path for such a time in my life.

The following is the Indian soiree I ended up putting together. I cannot remember if I did this for my Yum Yum’s Cooking Club or not? That was another fun outlet for all the theme meals I wanted to try. Anyway, I hope you all find something that you can use out of all these words and pictures. God’s bessings on you!!!!

– – RECIPES – –

SHRIMP CURRY

p. 196 The Around the World Cookbook, serves 4

Ingredients

1 ½ lb uncooked jumbo shrimp

4 dried red chilies

1 oz. or ½ cup desiccated coconut

1 tsp black mustard seeds

1 large onion, chopped

2 Tbsp oil

4 bay leaves

1 inch piece root ginger, finely chopped

2 garlic cloves, crushed

1 Tbsp ground coriander

1 tsp chili powder

1 tsp salt

4 tomatoes, finely chopped

Plain rice, to serve

Directions:

Peel the shrimp and discard the shells.  Run a sharp knife along the center back of each shrimp to make a shallow cut and carefully remove the thin black intestinal vein.

Put the dried red chilies, coconut, mustard seeds, and onion in a large heavy-based frying pan and dry-fry for 8-10 minutes or until the spices begin to brown but not burn.  Put into a food processor or blender and process to a coarse paste.

Heat the oil in the frying pan and fry the bay leaves for 1 minute.  Add the chopped ginger and the garlic and fry for 2-3 minutes.

Add the coriander, chili powder, salt and the coconut paste and cook gently for 5 minutes.

Stir in the chopped tomatoes and about 6 fl. Oz. or ¾ cup of water and simmer gently for 5-6 minutes or until the sauce has thickened.

Add the shrimp and cook for about 4-5 minutes or until they turn pink and the edges are curling slightly.  Serve with plain boiled rice.

CHICKEN BIRYANI

p. 194 Around the World cookbook – serves 4

Biryanis originated in Persia and are traditionally made with a combination of meat and rice. They are often served at dinner parties and on festive occasions.

Ingredients

10 oz or 1 ½ cups basmati rice

2 Tbsp oil

1 onion, thinly sliced

2 garlic cloves, crushed

1 green chili, finely chopped

1 inch piece root ginger, finely chopped

1 ½  lb. Chicken breast fillets, skinned and cut into 1 inch cubes

3 Tbsp curry paste

¼ tsp salt

¼ tsp Garam Masala

3 tomatoes cut into thin wedges

¼ tsp ground turmeric

2 bay leaves

4 green cardamom pods

4 cloves

¼ tsp saffron strand

Tomato and Onion Chutney, to serve

Directions:

Wash the rice in several changes of cold water.  Put into a large bowl, cover with plenty of water and leave to soak for 30 minutes.

Meanwhile, heat the oil in a large heavy-based frying pan and fry the onion for about 5-7 minutes until lightly browned.  Add the garlic, chili and ginger and fry for about 2 minutes. 

Add the chicken and fry for about 5 minutes, stirring occasionally.

Add the curry paste, salt and Garam Masala to the chicken mixture and cook for 5 minutes.  Gently stir in the tomato wedges and continue cooking for another 3-4 minutes, then remove from the heat and set aside.

Preheat the oven to 375 degrees.  Bring a large saucepan of water to the boil.  Drain the rice and add it to the pan with the turmeric.  Cook for about 10 minutes, or until the rice is almost tender.  Drain the rice and toss together with the bay leaves, cardamoms, cloves and saffron.

Layer the rice and chicken in a shallow, ovenproof dish until all the mixture has been used, finishing off with a layer of rice.  Cover and bake in the oven for 15-20 minutes or until the chicken is tender.  Serve with Tomato and Onion Chutney.

TOMATO AND ONION CHUTNEY

p. 210 The Around the World Cookbook, serves 4

Ingredients

8 tomatoes

1 medium onion, chopped

3 Tbsp.  Brown sugar

1 tsp Garam Masala

1 tsp ginger powder

6 fl. Oz. or ¾ cup malt vinegar

1 tsp salt

1 Tbsp clear honey

Plain yogurt, sliced green chili, and fresh mint leaves, to garnish

Directions:

Wash the tomatoes and cut them into quarters.

Place them with the onion in a heavy-based saucepan

Add the sugar, Garam Masala, ginger, vinegar, salt, and honey, half-cover the pan with a lid and cook over a low heat for about 20 minutes.

Mash the tomatoes with a fork to break them up, and then continue to cook on a slightly higher heat until the chutney thickens.  Serve chilled, garnished with plain yogurt, sliced chili, and mint leaves.

Tip:  This chutney will keep for about 2 weeks in a covered jar in the refrigerator.

 INDIAN CHICKEN CURRY

Submitted by: Amanda Cutting to  allrecipes.com

“This is an adaptation of yellow chicken curry from India. The aromas and flavors are a delight to the senses! It is best served with fresh Naan bread and Jasmine or Basmati rice.”

Original recipe yield: 4 to 6 servings

Ingredients

3 tablespoons olive oil

1 small onion, chopped

2 cloves garlic, minced

3 tablespoons curry powder

1 teaspoon ground cinnamon

1 teaspoon paprika

1 bay leaf

½ teaspoon grated fresh ginger root

½ teaspoon white sugar

salt to taste

2 skinless, boneless chicken breast halves – cut into bite-size pieces

1 tablespoon tomato paste

1 cup plain yogurt

¾ cup coconut milk

½ lemon, juiced

½ teaspoon cayenne pepper

Directions:

1. Heat olive oil in a skillet over medium heat. Sauté onion until lightly browned. Stir in garlic, curry powder, cinnamon, paprika, bay leaf, ginger, sugar and salt. Continue stirring for 2

minutes. Add chicken pieces, tomato paste, yogurt, and coconut milk. Bring to a boil, reduce heat, and simmer for 20 to 25 minutes.

2. Remove bay leaf, and stir in lemon juice and cayenne pepper. Simmer 5 more minutes.

BALTI STIR-FRIED VEGETABLE WITH CASHEW NUTS

p. 204 The Around the World Cookbook

Ingredients

2 medium carrots

1 medium red bell pepper, seeded

1 medium green bell pepper, seeded

2 zucchini

4 oz. green beans

1 medium bunch scallions

1 Tbsp oil

4-6 curry leaves

½ tsp cumin seeds

4 dried red chilies

10-12 cashew nuts

1 tsp salt

2 Tbsp lemon juice

Fresh mint leaves, to garnish

Directions:

Prepare the vegetables: but the carrots, peppers and zucchini into matchsticks, half the beans and chop the scallions.  Set aside.

Heat the oil in a wok or heavy-based frying pan and fry the curry leaves, cumin seeds and dried chilies for about 1 minute.

Add the vegetables and nuts and stir them around gently.   Add the salt and lemon juice.  Continue to stir and cook for about 3-5 minutes.

Transfer the vegetables to a serving dish, garnish with fresh mint leaves and serve immediately.

Beverages:

Masala Chai (Darjeeling tea with a mixture of spices boiled in milk)

Mango Nectar

Arabica Coffee

Dessert:

GROUND RICE PUDDING

Around the World Cookbook, p.212

This delicious and light ground rice pudding is the perfect end to a spicy meal.  It can be served either hot or cold.  Serves 4 to 6.

Ingredients

2 oz./ ½ cup coarsely ground rice

4 green cardamom pods, crushed

1 ½ pints or 3 ¾ cups semi-skimmed milk

6 Tablespoons sugar

1 Tablespoon rose water

1 Tablespoon crushed pistachio nuts, to garnish

Directions:

1. Place the ground rice in a saucepan with the cardamoms.  Add 1 pint or 2 ½ cups milk and bring to boil over a medium heat, stirring occasionally.

2. Add the remaining milk and cook over a medium heat for about 10 minutes or until the rice mixture thickens to a creamy consistency.

3. Stir in the sugar and rose water and continue to cook for a further 2 minutes.  Serve garnished with the pistachio nuts.

Tip:  Rose water is a distillation of scented rose petals which ha the intense fragrance and flavor of roses.  It is a popular flavoring in Indian cooking.  Use it cautiously, adding just enough to suit your taste.

– – ENTERTAINMENT – –

• Background Music: Vision of Peace: The Art of Ravi Shankar (2-disc CD set, the second CD is perfect)

• Watch a movie: Slumdog Millionaire; or the foreign film, Mother Teresa (2006), starring Olivia Hussey, about her life as a missionary to Indian orphans.  

• Ask guests to purchase a Sari to wear, and we can all learn how to wrap and tie it.

♥ Make a low table in the middle of your room and toss pillows all around it to sit on.

Batik: Batik craft kits can sometimes be found at craft and hobby stores.  It is sort of like tie-dying, only instead of twisting and rubber banding you use wax to protect parts of the fabric from the dye.  It is actually an Indonesian invention.  I would maybe go with a bandana size piece of fabric for each person.  The finished product could be made into a throw pillow, a place mat for your dining table, or a table covering for an end table.  Or, you could use the cloth to decorate a lamp shade and glue beads along the edge.

Henna: In India, young ladies get their palms and sometimes also their feet henna tattooed, as part of a marriage ritual.  Henna artists are often employed, or the bride’s closest girlfriends make it a kind of a bachelorette party of sorts the days before the wedding. 

My youngest daughter was assigned Indian culture for a presentation in one of her classes at school her junior year. These are her hands that we did from a kit that I found at at our local Herbal Remedies store.  The kit came with premeasured ingredients and the little applicator bottle.  We just mixed the compound, placed it in the special applicator bottle and let it sit for a little while. 

It can be prepared ahead of time and kept in the refrigerator overnight.  You prepare the skin by rubbing on a special cleaning solvent (included), then cut a design from the stencil sheet (also included) and transfer it to the skin with a wet cloth.  The henna is then squeezed out over the design, kind of like how you would pipe frosting decorations onto a cake.  The henna compound is a baby-poop-green color when it is wet, and when it dries it looks black.

You apply the henna in the evening and sleep with it on overnight.  The next day when it has completely hardened you chip it off and it leaves behind a reddish/brownish stain on your skin that lasts about 5 days.  We did the tops of her hands, but normally it is the palms that are done.

Belly dancing:  Belly dancing is a hot new way to exercise.  Introduce your guests to the art of belly dancing using belly dancing instructional videos. Here is a highly rated DVD to try:  Amira’s Belly Dance 101 DVD, a quality instructional video of belly dancing basics for beginners. Remember to get some belly jingles for each of your guests.

Until writing this chapter, I didn’t realize how much influence Indian culture has had on American life.  Yoga, for instance is huge in the physical fitness industry.  Yoga mats are available for sale in all the big box stores, and classes are available in almost every American community little and big.  Yoga is a regimen of stretching and breathing and meditation that is supposed to be good for mind, body, and spirit.  As with all things Indian, it is nearly impossible to separate physical things from their spiritual connections.  So, I think it is probably the safest thing for me, a Christian woman wanting to get a taste of India, to stay as close to the table as possible and tip toe very carefully around the spiritual customs and traditions, since they are mostly steeped in Eastern mysticism.  Hinduism isn’t just a religion in India, it is a way of life.  And Indians who are not Hindu are likely Muslim. 

Play a Board Game: Parcheesi (this is an Americanized version of the Indian game, Pasha or Pachisi).  The following link will take you to a You Tube video which explains how to play: https://youtu.be/M5pXXEfIuO4?si=Jg0Hf9iN6f_Fndvd. In India this game was known as the cross and circle game.

Vintage game

CONVERSATION STARTERS

How much do you know about Mother Teresa?  Bollywood?  Mohandas Gandhi?  Ghost chilis? The Taj Mahal?  Well there you go.  Now you have something to talk about and research and learn about.  You’re welcome.  BTW: Did you know that there are more honor students in India than there are students in the USA?  Crazy huh?

“Use hospitality one to another without grudging.” 

1 Peter 4:9

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South African “Bring and Braai” – A Jr. High World Studies Class Party

Grandma strikes again!

Have I mentioned lately how blessed I am to have grandchildren? Better still, to have grandchildren living in the same town. I’m telling you…life just doesn’t get any better. The good LORD sure knew what He was doing when He created grandchildren. And mine are such happy, fun-loving creatures, my cup runneth over.

Well, once again, I was invited, by my oldest granddaughter’s teacher, to throw a party for their history class. Not only was I thrilled to get to do it, but in sharing the details with you I’m getting to relive all the best moments.  I was disappointed though, that I was given such short notice I barely had time to gather my thoughts let alone make authentic foods, so we had to improvise on most of it.  But don’t worry, if you dropped by for recipes and party ideas I have all of that information below, and hopefully next time I’ll get a little more notice so I can make it all authentic – which is the thing that truly makes my tail wag.

What is a “Bring & Braai,” you may be asking?  Well, basically it is what we in America would call a Backyard Barbeque (cook-out).  In South Africa it is traditional for the guests to bring beverages, side dishes, snacks, and whatever meat they want to eat.  The host is in charge of providing the backyard and doing all the grilling.  It is such an integral part of South African culture that they even have an annual holiday to commemorate it.  And, you know how Chevrolet used to have a little ditty in their commercials here in the States that went… “Baseball, Hotdogs, Apple Pie, and Chevrolet” to epitomize all things American?  Well, in South Africa they had the same tiny tune but with these words: “Braaivleis, Rugby, Sunny Skies, and Chevrolet.” (Braai is short for Braaivleis, which in Afrikaans means “roasted meat”). Let me tell you, they are serious about their Braai!!!!

So, the students were learning about Colonial Africa 1750-1950, and to culminate their studies it seemed perfectly appropriate to celebrate with a “Bring & Braai.” We held our little shindig out on the back playground.  I drug all the picnic tables over and set them together, covered them with animal print tablecloths, and put some African art objects as centerpieces.  I set out Mancala games for each pair of students and set up my little Weber grill with charcoals (wood is preferred in South Africa but charcoals are an acceptable alternative).  I put a Soweto Gospel Choir CD in the boom-box, tossed an African Dashiki Kaftan (dress) over my clothes, and gleefully welcomed my guests. 

The students arrived with their foodstuffs in hand (chips and dips, sodas, etc.) and we set them out on the buffet table. I informed them a little bit about what a South African Bring and Braai is, and then I started my sausage braaiing (grilling).  I explained that cooking the meat is always the man’s job but that in this case we had to improvise.  In true Braai fashion, the women always gather in the kitchen to make the salads, sides, and snacks, while the men congregate around the grill and indulge in their manly chit chat. The only time a woman is allowed near the grill is to deliver snacks to the men and then be on her way back to the kitchen. (LOL!)

The three most popular elements to a traditional “Bring & Braai” are Boerewors (you’ll hear how to pronounce this in one of the You Tube videos I share below), Chakalaka (a sort of side dish/condiment, served warm or cold), and Pap (sort of like firm but creamy white grits, or crumbled white grits – “Krummel Pap“) served warm. I wanted to keep things simple, so the kids brought chips and dips, and soda pops, and I provided the sausage and “chakalaka” – Boom!!!!

Boerewors

There are lots of foods that are popular in South Africa.  Maybe you’ve heard of Peri-Peri Chicken? It is a spatchcocked chicken slathered in spicy Peri-Peri sauce and braaied on the grill.  I’ve made it and it is delicious!!!!  Check out this video to see how it’s done. A traditional Braai is all about the meat, and there is often quite a variety, especially when the guests are bringing their own.

Perhaps you’ve heard of other African foods, such as Bobotie? Or Bunny Chow? Or Potjiekos?

Well, today we are learning about Boerewors.  I had to improvise on the sausages I made for our party because I didn’t have time to order the sausage making supplies and there was nowhere in my little town to find such a thing already made. 

Boerewors translates as “farmer” (boer) “sausage” (wors).  It is from the Dutch influence, is made into a long spiral shape, and is often skewered to keep it together while cooking and flipping. 

To make your own Boerewors you’ll need a sausage maker.  If you have a Kitchenaid, you can purchase the sausage maker attachment. Otherwise, there are several options on Amazon. I have an old fashioned hand crank meat grinder, so I decided to order the manual sausage stuffer along with a package of small batch home pack hog casings so I could try making it (for my next attempt at this party). You can also find the sausages for mail order, or perhaps you are fortunate to live near an African market or restaurant.

This video seemed like a good one to demonstrate to you how to make this sausage, also how to pronounce the name, and includes a good recipe.

Boerewors Recipe

Prep Time2 hours 40 minutes

Cook Time20 minutes

Total Time3 hours

Servings 12

Equipment 12″ wooden skewer, Sausage stuffer

This iconic sausage blends ground beef with spices, wrapped in hog casings, before being cooked on a braai (or grill, as we would call it). It is left in the large spiral of one hog casing and not portioned into individual sizes.  This sausage has a coarse texture, sort of like a Bratwurst or Kielbasa, and the use of coriander seeds and nutmeg gives the meat a unique flavor that’s enhanced by flame cooking.  It is often served on a roll (a boerie roll, as it’s called) with a traditional sauce called chakalaka (see recipe below), a topping made of tomato, carrot, onion, beans, and spices.

INGREDIENTS

3 lbs ground beef

2 lbs ground pork

1 lbs ground pork fat

10 tsp whole coriander seeds

2 tbsp allspice

1 tbsp salt

1 tbsp ground black pepper

½ tsp ground cloves

½ tsp ground nutmeg

¼ cup malt vinegar

⅛ cup Worcestershire sauce

7 oz natural sausage casings (pork)

INSTRUCTIONS

Meat Mixture

Add the coriander to a dry frying pan set over medium heat and toast until aromatic. Keep an eye on it to make sure it doesn’t burn.

Place the toasted coriander seeds into a spice grinder, or pestle and mortar, and grind into a fine powder. Mix the other spices, salt and pepper into the ground coriander.

In a large bowl, use your hands to work together the ground beef, pork, pork fat, vinegar, Worcestershire sauce, and then mix the spices in until well combined.

Cover the meat and spice mixture with plastic wrap, and place in the refrigerator for at least two hours.

Once the meat has rested, pipe the mixture into the casing, making sure not to overstuff. If using a sausage stuffer, be sure to follow the manufacturer’s instructions.

You can either shape the sausage the traditional way, keeping it long and wrapping into a spiral, or you can form individual sausage links, 6” long.

GRILLING INSTRUCTIONS

When ready to cook, bring your grill to 350°F (180°C). 

Insert 12” wood skewer through the center of boerewors from one side to the other. This will help hold it together and make it easier to flip over during cooking. Or, you can place the sausage in a grill basket.

Once the grill is at temperature, place boerewors on grill grates. Cook the sausage gently so that the casing doesn’t split or burn before the filling is fully cooked. Grill for 5-8minutes per side, until sausage internal temperature is 160°F (71°C)

Remove boerewors from grill. Slice to serve and enjoy with or without a bun.  Top with Chakalaka or serve it on the side. Or serve without the bun, with Pap (or Krummel Pap) and Chakalaka on the side.

Chakalaka

We had, as our one and only side dish, baked beans, which were a stand in for the Chakalaka.  Real Chakalaka is spicy and has shredded/minced veggies mixed into the beans.  It is easy to make.  Here is a video that demonstrates how it’s made…

There are lots of videos out there which use slightly different spices, but basically the same ingredients (onion, garlic, bell peppers, shredded carrots, baked beans, hot peppers, curry powder, and other herbs and spices).

Pap (pronounced “pop”)

Similar to white cornmeal mush/polenta or smooth grits, and once fully cooked is about the consistency of thick mashed potatoes.  Can be enjoyed plain with butter, cream, or olive oil, or you can add cooked onion, garlic, parsley, chives, or make it cheesy by stirring in some shredded cheese in the final step, or even make it sweet by adding maple syrup to the plain buttered version, and serve for breakfast.

It is easy to make, if just a bit time consuming – like making risotto, sort of.  

This is a Cheesy Pap recipe:

And this is a creamy, buttery Pap with parsley:

Since I will have another grandchild in this history class in a couple of years, I hope I’ll get another chance to execute this party.  If not on the school campus, though, it will make a great family fun thing to do in our own backyard to celebrate and learn about world culture.

And now we’ll move on from the food to the games….

Mancala

This game is known by various different names.  It is readily available at most department stores where games are sold and isn’t expensive.  You could even make one for free out of an old ice cube tray or egg carton.  The kids could even decorate a homemade one with paint or markers, and then use dry beans, beads, buttons, or small stones for the game tokens.  It’s actually a great game to have on hand for grandchild sleepovers.

Just in case you are not familiar, this short video explains and demonstrates the basics of how the game is played:

Learn the history of the game HERE!

There are actually several ways to play if you do a search. This is another video that shows how the game is played (simple version) and also features a hand carved game table which features two games.

As well as there being several ways to play, there are also a few different Mancala boards.  Most are for two players, but here are a couple of 4-person boards I found.

One of the students brought a 4-person board.

 We rounded out our party by learning a few SOUTH AFRICAN SLANG WORDS AND PHRASES WE ALL SHOULD KNOW

Colloquial language is an especially fascinating cultural product in South Africa thanks to the wide variety of languages spoken in South Africa. Locals tend to borrow words from each language, resulting in slang words or phrases known as ‘South Africanisms’. If you’re visiting South Africa any time soon, it’s useful to know a few turns of phrase to help you along the way.

Ag

In South Africa, ag [agh] is not short for aggressive or agriculture — it’s a filler word to express irritation or resignation. Example: ‘Ag, no man!’, or ‘Ag, let’s go.’   (In America we might say Ugh!)

Skinner

Skinner [skuhn-her] is Afrikaans slang for gossip. Example: ‘Don’t skinner about me.’

Lekker

Lekker [lek-uh] is a widely used term indicating that something is ‘great’ or ‘nice’. For example, ‘The food was lekker’, or ‘We had a lekker day.’

Kief

Kief [kif], derived from Arabic (kayf), means cool, great, awesome or neat. Example:  ‘That’s a kief car!’

Just Now

You’ll often hear South Africans mention that they will do something ‘just now’. This does not mean they’ll do it immediately, but rather a bit later. It may sound illogical but makes complete sense in South Africa!

Indaba

Indaba [in-daa-bah] A conference or expo, from the Zulu word for ‘a matter for discussion’.

Braai

Braai [br-eye] is a widely used noun and verb for an outdoor ‘barbecue’ where meat is cooked over a fire or coals. Example:  ‘We’re having a braai tomorrow.’ ‘We braaied the meat yesterday’. A braai is a popular social event in South Africa and even has its own dedicated public holiday, known as National Braai Day, which coincides with Heritage Day celebrated annually on September 24.

Shame

Shame is a typical South African expression for sympathy or admiration. Example:  ‘Ag, shame man, poor girl!’ ‘Shame, he’s so cute.’

Eish

Eish [aysh] is a colloquial exclamation of surprise, disapproval, exasperation or regret derived from Xhosa. Example:  ‘Eish, my cell phone broke’.

Biltong

Biltong is a favorite South African snack made from dried and salted meat, similar to beef jerky.

Boerewors

Boerewors [boo-ruh-vors] is an Afrikaans term for ‘farmer’s sausage’ — a traditional South African meat often enjoyed at a braai.

Sharp

Sharp [shahp] is often doubled up for effect (sharp sharp!) and means ‘goodbye’ or that everything is great.

Is it?

Is it? [izzit] is an expression frequently used in conversation meaning ‘Is that so?’ or ‘Really?’.

Dop

Dop is slang for an alcoholic drink. It can also mean ‘to fail an exam’. For example, ‘Pour me a dop,’ or ‘I’m gonna dop that test’.

Jol

Jol [jawl] is a widely-used term for ‘club’, ‘party’ or to ‘have fun’. Example:  ‘We had a jol last night!’

Shebeen

Shebeen [sha-bean] is an illegal tavern derived from Irish (sibín). It refers to unlicensed bars that were set up in townships during apartheid (segregation) and frequented mainly by black South Africans. It has since become a mainstream word.

Sho’t Left

Sho’t left is derived from everyday South African ‘taxi lingo’. A commuter wanting a ride to a destination close by will say ‘Sho’t left, driver,’ meaning ‘I want to get off just around the corner.’

“So Peter opened his mouth and said: ‘Truly I understand that God shows no partiality, but in every nation anyone who fears Him and does what is right is acceptable to Him.'”

Acts 10:34,35